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shy, kinky submissive looking for lovely lady for first same-sex encounter

Hi I'm Katy. I say I'm bisexual but I suppose really it's more bi-curious at the moment as I've only ever been with men.
At the moment I am giving men a rest and really only interested in someone who can introduce me to the wonders of a relationship with another woman.

I can be initially pretty shy with people I dont know (but not always - it depends on the person). however, once I really get to know and trust people I let my true personality show. I suppose you could say I have many layers (like shrek, and onions!). only the people closest to me get to experience the innermost workings of my personality. And you'll be surprised by what you find in there - I assure you ;)

I like to think of myself as being a good listener and very caring, kind and generous. I am honnest, open minded and not particularly good at taking hints :) so its best to just tell me things outright else you could be waiting for ever! for example: if you're interested, do say, else I'm never going to know :D

I love talking to people. I'm quite sociable even though I tend to be pretty quiet in large groups. I'm keen on meeting new people and making new friends, so please message me because I'm almost always up for a chat.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageBritish
BuildBBW/BHM
Height178 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthVery long
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Cup sizeD

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

SpecialtyResearch / Science / Engineering
Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchKinky, like me, and preferably dominant in the bedroom. Ideally she would be creative in coming up with ways to challenge me, whether it is being tied up in different positions or setting up certain rules for my behaviour..
Our first dateMeeting somewhere neutral first among other people (assuming it's the first time we've met).
Then we'd maybe sit down at a bar/coffee shop and chat and get to know each other then maybe go for a walk in the park.
Later on we'd get a nice romantic dinner in a restaurant and perhaps go and watch a show at the theatre.
Depending on how everything's going then maybe go somewhere a bit more private...

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA relationship
I live the lifestyleOnly in the bedroom
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Depilation / shaving, Femdom, Hair pulling, Mummification, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesSmothering, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Night life:Strip clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isNot my thing
Sex toys:Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":water sports, general "toilet" stuff, blood, public humiliation

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyAs I've never been intimate with a woman before, only men, I'd really like to be smothered - have my face sat on and be forced to lick clit/pussy to be allowed to breathe
Fantasy locationHot tub, On the beach
Fantasy sex partner:I have no idea!

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Being Told to Assume the Position
I like to wear:not something i've done much of, so i cant really answer this
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to something outside in a safe area
Implement:Hand, Hairbrush, Belt
Response:Resistance
Pain level:Stinging